Dating in Taranaki: How to Meet People Beyond Your Small Town

Taranaki has about 130,000 people and 22 towns, cities and rural settlements, and most of them are small: 18 (82%) have fewer than 5,000 people, and 11 have fewer than 1,000. If you live in a small one, you already know what dating close to home looks like: you've met most of the single people you'd consider, or you know someone who has.

This page is for everyone in those towns. It covers why the big dating apps make a small town's dating pool even smaller, how Amarbis lets you meet people across all of Taranaki instead, and, further down, every town, city or rural settlement in Taranaki by district.

Taranaki by town size

Size of place	Places	People
Under 1,000	11	3,800
1,000 to 4,999	7	13,000
5,000 to 24,999	3	24,000
25,000 or more	1	58,000

The typical town, city or rural settlement in Taranaki has about 937 people. Its only place of 25,000 or more, New Plymouth, is home to about 58,000 of the region's 130,000 people; everyone else lives in the smaller towns and the countryside.

Why your hometown still sets the limits in Taranaki

Most of Taranaki is within an hour of a bigger town, but that doesn't help as much as it should on a distance-ranked app. It builds your deck from the people closest to you first, so a smaller town's deck is mostly that town and its neighbours, and the people a little farther out come much later, if they come at all.

Why the nearest city is out of reach on the big apps

Dating in a small town is hard, and meeting someone in the nearest city can be harder. Many dating apps lean on distance to decide who you see, and Tinuiti's analysis of Tinder's algorithm says proximity is a key factor in who it shows you. When someone in New Plymouth or Hāwera opens a distance-ranked app, the people who live near them come first. You live farther away, so you land behind their neighbours in their deck, whatever your photos and profile say.

That's the small-town problem twice over: at home you keep seeing the same people, and in the city you're barely seen.

How Amarbis is different

You choose your region

On Amarbis you choose the region you meet people from instead of being limited to whoever lives closest. Choose Taranaki and your pool is the whole region, about 130,000 people, whether you live in New Plymouth or a village of a few hundred. A member in a town of 1,000 has the same region-wide pool as a member in New Plymouth.

Ranking isn't based on distance

On Amarbis, ranking isn't based on distance. Choose Taranaki as your region and the person you'd like to meet in New Plymouth isn't shown their next-door neighbour ahead of you because of where you live. It's the opposite of the proximity problem above, and it matters most to the people the big apps leave behind.

No distance limits, and the whole world if you want it

Amarbis has no distance limits, so you aren't limited to Taranaki either. You can widen your region to the neighbouring regions or meet someone in another country: Amarbis is an international dating app, the app speaks more than 50 languages, and built-in chat translation helps when you don't share one. The km only matter once you both want to meet.

Real people, reviewed by real people

Every member has a real face photo, photos are screened before anyone sees them, and every profile on Amarbis is reviewed by a real person. When your local pool is small, every fake or abandoned profile takes up a bigger share of what you see, so that review step is worth more in a small town than in a big city.

Free to join

Joining is free, with no credit card. The free plan gives you 25 likes a day and unlimited messaging with your matches, so you can find out whether Amarbis works for your town before you pay anything. See plans and pricing for what the paid plans add.

How to start from a small town in Taranaki

Sign up free and build a profile that sounds like you: a clear photo of your face and one specific thing about life in your town. Our profile tips show what works.
Set your region to Taranaki, or wider if you like.
Message first. One good question about where someone lives works better than "hey", and a conversation can start long before anyone plans a trip.
When you both want to meet, pick a public place about halfway, tell a friend where you're going, and follow our safe-meeting checklist.

Built by someone from a small town

Amarbis's founder, Nick, is from Boardman, Oregon, a small American town of about 4,500 people. The small-town dating problem on this page is one he knows first-hand: a deck full of people you already know, and a nearby city that ranks its own neighbours ahead of you. Amarbis is built so that where you live in Taranaki doesn't decide who you can meet.

Every town, city or rural settlement in Taranaki

All 22 towns, cities and rural settlements in Taranaki by district. Wherever yours is on this list, everything on this page applies to you: choose Taranaki as your region on Amarbis and every place below is in your pool.

New Plymouth District

Egmont Village: 345 people
Inglewood: 3,801 people
Lepperton: 381 people
New Plymouth: 58,041 people
Urenui: 450 people
Waitara: 7,512 people
Ōakura: 1,764 people
Ōkato: 711 people
Ōnaero Beach: 75 people

South Taranaki District

Eltham: 2,097 people
Hāwera: 10,362 people
Kaponga: 357 people
Manaia: 1,083 people
Normanby: 1,044 people
Pātea: 1,320 people
Waiinu Beach: 96 people
Waitōtara: 69 people
Waverley: 831 people
Ōhāwe: 231 people
Ōpunake: 1,476 people

Stratford District

Midhirst: 276 people
Stratford: 6,330 people

Frequently asked questions

What is the best dating app for small towns in Taranaki?

We think it's Amarbis. You choose the region you meet people from, so a small town in Taranaki gets the same region-wide pool as New Plymouth; ranking isn't based on distance; there are no distance limits; every profile is reviewed by a real person; and joining is free.

Why do I keep seeing the same people on dating apps in my town?

Many dating apps lean on distance to decide who you see, and in a small town the closest people are a short list. Tinuiti's analysis of Tinder's algorithm says proximity is a key factor, which is why a small-town deck fills with the same neighbours. On Amarbis you choose your region, so your pool isn't limited to your postcode.

Can I meet people from all over Taranaki?

Yes. Choose Taranaki as your region and you meet people across the region, from wherever you live, without being ranked behind someone's neighbours.

Can I meet people outside Taranaki?

Yes. Amarbis has no distance limits, so you can widen your region or meet someone in another country, with built-in chat translation when you don't share a language. Start with the international dating guide.

Is Amarbis free?

Yes. Joining is free, with no credit card, and the free plan includes 25 likes a day and unlimited messaging with your matches. Create your profile.

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Population figures: Stats NZ, 2023 Census usually resident population counts (census night 7 March 2023) for urban areas and rural settlements of the Urban Rural 2023 (UR2023) classification, totalled from Stats NZ's published SA2 (urban areas) and SA1 (rural settlements) counts; region total: Stats NZ subnational population estimates, estimated resident population at 30 June 2025 (provisional), regional council areas. Urban areas and rural settlements are statistical areas defined by Stats NZ, not council boundaries. Populations are 2023 Census counts of people who usually live there; Stats NZ randomly rounds census counts to base 3, so a figure for a place made up of several statistical areas can differ by a few people from the total Stats NZ publishes for that place. Rural settlements are places of roughly 200 to 1,000 people; smaller hamlets are not listed. The Chatham Islands are not part of any region and are excluded. Richmond (Tasman) urban area extends slightly into Nelson City; it is listed under Tasman District. Distances are straight-line between town locations, so road distances are longer.